Hi Hope you are doing well
I have got an 2003 Audi S3 (225 Quattro) with GT30R and all other possible mods
You have got a few problems
1) Difficult to go the stand alone management route due to the Quattro uses some of the inputs and outputs of the ECU ,,but the 630 file from Unitronics will let you keep your ECU / Quattro /dash functions etc ,,,and make more than enough power talk to DON R
2) Due to the Quattro most of the branch type exhaust manifolds except log style won’t work ,,but it can be done and I will send you some pic if you want PM me
3) Lots of guys say a lot of things regarding the exhaust and the space on the Quattro ,,,,my downpipe and exhaust are 3 inch and clearance is no problem
4) The motor is strong you only need to change the rods (pistons /crank etc very strong)
5) Depending on your budget,,,, The head/cams will give a few more horses ,,,,talk to BOBQ he will give you all the info regarding small port vs big port and all the cam options
6) Intake manifold ,,talk to DONR or SEM motorsport
7) Turbo is a difficult one ,I went for a GT3076R but GT3071 and other are also very good depending on what you want to do (hp/lag/boost)

The two small intercoolers on the car heat soak very fast , I went for a big front mounted one
Hope this could answer some of your questions PM me if you need more info